update
ok here are a few updates on my life.
I start a 2nd part time job on monday working mornings at a subway. hopefully that will help ease the burden a little without killing me.
my car still won't start, however we now know the reason behind it all.
the a/c compressor pully froze up and that prevents the serpentine drive belt from turning fast enough to start the car. we priced a new compressor at 200 in the lowest and not to mention the time and effort to replace it so we opted for the much cheaper 30 bypass pully. We haven't had a chance to replace it yet but hopefully that will get done this weekend. pray to that end