update 4; grandma's condition
the dr came in and explained to the whole family just now. the whole family decided that surgery isn't an option even though it was offered.
this is the deal: there is no further bleeding in the brain but there isn't any draining going on either. here is where it gets bad, her brain is replenishing its spinal fluid so the fluid buildup is creating a pressure buildup that has put her to sleep. she may wake up but the general consensus is that this may be the end for her.
they are not giving up, they are using medicines to help dry up the blood and water in the brain. hopefully it will work.